Saturday, December 20, 2025

Candy makin day

Getting as many people together who want to make candy and cookies before Christmas has become one of my favorite things.  Today I had the big sisters and the granddaughters who worked really hard!  
We made candy, and cookies and the girls helped aunt Mal frost a bunch of sugar cookies!  


They also had fun playing with naughty Maude. 

This one saw the plan and ran away. But she was awesome at helping with the girls and I appreciate her more than she knows.  





We got so much done and it was a really fun day.  Jim and Andrew went fishing. Everyone was happy!  

The other thing I finally got done this weekend - making a couple of wreaths.  I had wanted to make a snowman wreath for our front porch thinking if it wasn’t overly Christmas-y I could leave it out there after the holidays.  I like how it turned out.  




I also volunteered to sponsor an ugly sweater contest at Cameron’s bank. I got them some gift cards and made this wreath for first prize. They will have their customers vote on Christmas Eve day when they all wear their ugly sweaters.  I feel confident that Cameron will win, I got him the coolest ugly sweater ever!  

 

Wrestling wrap and other junk

 

For about 4 years now, the mayor and his wife have been remodeling the building next door to my office.  They said they were going to open a bakery. They worked really hard.  They preserved parts of the old bricks, they redid and cleared out and replaced.  And for about 2 years it has been sitting there looking finished and beautiful, with everyone in town asking when they were going to open. Sometimes they even opened my office door to ask  me when they would open.  I had zero intel! Today was the grand opening.  Of course, if there is a new bakery next door, you must go right?   Plus I had the bus driver Christmas party and no time to make anything. So I bought a couple dozen and put them on a fancy plate.  The cookies were excellent.  Not only that but when they asked if I made them, I lied.  Then one of the old men drivers asked me to marry him. So I had to backtrack real fast and tell him to go to the bakery for more.  I will definitely be going back to the bakery!  This is not going to end well for my wallet or my waist.  
When I got off the bus this evening,  Cameron was here. He and Preston went to the Eisenhower museum.  Cameron stopped here. For whatever reason he bought me an Eisenhower flask.  I said ok!  I love this!  I am taking this to the bus driver party and breaking it out during the dinner.  I was allowed to bring my family to the bus driver party, so I talked Cameron into joining Jim and  me. Madison was also there with the girls.  It wasn’t as bad as I anticipated.  I like most of my bus driving coworkers. Bus driving is weird, I see my coworkers every day but rarely talk to any of them, just wave as I pass them!  There are a few who are flat weird.  The weird ones are also the loud ones.  Even Evelyn noticed!  Seriously, I have friends who I can not seem to find enough time to get together with, so spending an evening with weird people to me is just not a priority.  But it was fun seeing the girls and Madison there, and it was nice to have some time to catch up with Cameron. As I said, not as bad as I had anticipated.  

The girls and I do goat and chicken chores at promptly 5:45 every school day morning.  The time is also known at 0 dark thirty. Anyway I hate the cold,  we each take a task so nobody is out there long, but I have to grumble under my breath about the cold anyhow.  As we were finishing up, Saige started back to the house, Harper and I were  making sure we didn’t lock Maude in the shed. I hear Saige saying mooooooommmmmmm what is thaaaaat?  Moooommmm come here!  And she is pointing to the sky. I told her it was Starlink as I had seen pictures if it before.  But then it didn’t move, it just  hung there for an abnormally long time.  Of course I took a picture, had to show Jim!  Later, as I was at work, a story popped up on my homepage saying that they lost control over Starlink and it was crashing back to earth.  Gee thanks Elon. That’s just what we need.  

Today was also the last day of school before Christmas break.  And I know that educationally, they accomplish nothing on a week like this because the kids are just hyped, sugared and crazy.  But the school feeds it too.  They had crazy spirit week. Dress as a Christmas movie character?  I had a kid in a full on Rudolph costume.  Pj day always hypes them up. And today- today was “anything but a backpack” day.  I had kids getting on the bus with  coolers, suitcases, laundry baskets, Christmas bags, and my personal favorites - a soup pot and a traffic cone with the end taped up.  Now, if this was any random day in any month except December, I would have thought it was fun.  Added to trays of cookies, bags of gifts, boxes of chips and whatever else they were dragging in and all the class projects they were cleaning out- well let’s just say the bus ain’t that big.  And to whoever decided that you should sell candy canes to already hopped up kids all week long?  Yeah - I loathe you.  Needless to say, I will be utilizing one of the upcoming 65 degree days to clean the bus before break ends.  Also needless to say I am ready for the break.  Need it.  Am embracing it and rolling around in it.  Give me the break.  

Saige ended her short season wrestling with a league tournament at Osawatomie.  Jim and I were late because we went first to Stony’s funeral and then had a tiny bit of car trouble on tbe way down.  We ended up missing her first match. She said she lost but made it through the first period before getting pinned.  We did get to watch her second match. She is starting to pick up the moves and counter moves, but it still requires more thought than muscle memory.  People in this part of the country start their kids wrestling at age 3 or 4.  (Not joking).  By the time they reach junior high, they have already been on the mat 8-9 years.  They have spent hours practicing and it shows.  Saige is not a bad wrestler, but  getting a lot more experience on the mats will definitely help her if she wants to continue .  



Her team did win league champions.  




I am unclear on of this is the beginning of a wrestling career, or the end of one.  She seemed to like it and asked if she could do club wrestling.  But when we told her it starts Monday, she sort of balked.  Of course, we are all flat exhausted from the last couple of weeks, so we will see how she feels after the weekend!  I  am very proud of her for trying something new and seeing the season through.  I am very proud of her team who worked really hard to win league.  I actually really like wrestling and think it is a great sport to get involved in.  We shall see what Saige thinks I guess!  

Wednesday, December 17, 2025

Just some things

 

This little girl is growing up right before our eyes.  She’s starting to really talk and is a light in the world for me right now.    I love my grandkids.  

This absolutely cracks me up.  Half vested.  Hahaha.  The half vest is a really nice touch don’t ya think?  

My friend Dusty is going through old photos for her brother’s funeral.  She ran across these photos of Eric when he was in Stony’s wedding years ago. The first thing I noticed is how happy he looks. But then I sort of giggled because the photos sort of make it look like it is his wedding.  Weird choices by the photographer in my opinion.  I am so happy that she sent these.  When photos and memories are all that is left, you cherish any new ones you can get your hands on.  I miss my brother.  I miss his snarky comebacks.  I miss his dorky grin. And his silly,  shouldn’t come out of a grown man giggle.  And I am sad that my friend is walking down this road.  Today she told me she was wondering if the funeral they planned would be ok with him, or what he would think about it. . And all I could think was nobody should be planning a funeral for either of these men.  It makes no sense.  I sort of want to kick both their a$$es - for leaving us here without them.  Some day, I have a lot of questions.  Some day I hope I will have the answers.  I don’t know what to say to Dusty. If you know me, you probably find it hard to believe. I have never been at a loss for words in my life.  But I am stumped.  I just keep checking on her, and wishing there was something I could do to make it better.  There isn’t.  

Monday, December 15, 2025

Harper is 16!

 

It’s good that we celebrated Harper over the weekend.  Today we had a wrestling tournament and a band concert.  I drove the bus to Saige’s wrestling tournament.  She had a pretty good night. She didn’t win any matches but she is learning and she came close to pinning her first opponent.  Short season girls wrestling is literally 12 practices and 4 meets.  If you haven’t wrestled before, it is hard to learn the sport in that amount of time.  She is sort of wanting to join the club wrestling team that Colin was a part of.   I would never discourage a kid from wrestling.  It’s a tough sport.  It is tough mentally. It is tough strategically and it truly teaches kids discipline and handling pressure.  I absolutely love the relationships that you build there and, even though I didn’t know a thing about it when Colin got started, it is now my favorite.  

We dropped off the girls and coach with 20 minutes until Harper’s concert started.  Saige’s coach happens to be my bus boss.  He gave me permission to park the bus and watch her concert in my way home.  So Saige and I were able to squeak in and see her performance. 
If you know Harper you already know that a concert is not what she would have chosen to do on her birthday, but it also a price you pay for having a December birthday.   This is not the first time she had to go to a concert on her birthday! 


My Harper is growing up way too fast.  She is smart, a little snarky, and hilarious.  She makes life a lot more entertaining for sure.  She is also a home body who prefers hanging out in her pj’s (my spirit animal). I couldn’t be prouder of her.  
Love you Harper.  













And a hodge podge of photos from this day. In no particular order - sort of like the way my brain works.  I am thankful today for good timing and seeing both my girls doing their thing   

Harper is 16. (Birthday weekend recap)

 

The weekend got away from us in a fury of  birthday activities, helping a friend, babysitting the girls and doing a birthday dinner/Christmas craft night. 
It was fun celebrating our Harper girl.  
Before I get into that, a few other things because I have gotten so far behind.  

First, my niece, Emma-Kate- is a KSU agriculture scholar!  She spent a bunch of time on a project with bull genetics and genomes and other things that aunt Hope doesn’t understand.  She is kicking butt and I just couldn’t be prouder of her.  She also landed an amazing internship that she really wanted.  She is going to have to tell me more about it though because I am not sure what she will be doing.   I feel bad, she spent last summer in Cincinnati working at an internship at the zoo there with a big cat breeding program.  I wanted to go there for a visit and intended to go for a long weekend.  Life happened instead.  Anyway….EK we are so proud of you!  

This isn’t really a secret but Mallory LOVES Christmas. And Christmas lights.    She also likes dragging people to look at Christmas lights.  She took Madison and the girls this weekend to the zoo lights followed by the drive through winter wonderland display.  She’s crazy, but I love that she took such cute photos! 

Wrenley still HATES Santa! 


The ornery grin, the crooked hat, the insane aunt.  There is so much to say about this I could write an essay.  It made me smile - and I’m tired. No essays will be written today.  


Saturday evening, I took Harper and her friend Alaya shopping and out for dinner.  We hit the new Chinese place again. I am starting to really like that place, although Saturday night might not be the best time to go unless you love seafood - they have an all you can eat seafood bar added to the regular Chinese buffet, sushi buffet, hibachi grill and salad bar. Oh and desserts.  It is a really good place to eat.  Major difference between Harper and Saige. When I took Saige and her friends shopping it cost me.  Big time.  The only store Harper wanted anything from was Bath and Body, and they were having such a sale that it hardly cost anything at all!  She’s a cheap shopper!

I did get the rest of the Christmas candy, candy making supplies and most importantly- Carlos’ new Christmas Grinch Jammie’s. 
When I got home. I put his new pj’s on and we practiced rocking a baby- you know- fo polish up my skills before Easton arrives!  

Sunday was Andrew’s company Christmas party. We had the girls here and made Harper’s birthday dinner, complete with cake. I asked Harper if she wanted a sweet 16 party and she told me hard pass.  She did consent to cake with the girls though. 






Mallory and Cameron went to see Wicked with GG and then came out.  We painted ornaments, painted some wall hanging Santa’s and gingerbread men, made gingerbread houses and Christmas bracelets.  Then we had to give Wren a bath because she may have gotten more paint on herself than on her ornaments. It was messy and fun. And I will take that as a win - memories made.  










After her bath, we combed her hair.  She decided poopy needed his hair done as well.  Poppy said her comb felt sort of like a saw.  

We also had to play just dance in order to wear ourselves completely out before they went home for the night.